Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Making Goals

I am thinking about what my main goals will be for 2014, I haven't really decided because I did a lot last year, a lot that was unexpected (thanks to that Scary September thing I did for a few weeks-- really shook things up!) and a lot was over due.
I think I am starting fresh and strong; no residual baggage really. Here are some pointers though that I want to keep in mind over all, I try to keep them foreground for me but often, it is easy to get distracted.

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other.
– Abraham Lincoln

1. Begin. – Remember the feeling you get from taking the first step is far better than the feeling you get from sitting around thinking about it. So get up and get moving. Take the first step this year – just one small step forward. The greatest miracle of your success will not be that you finished, it will be that you had the courage to begin. 

2. Work hard on the essential.Don’t be busy, be productive. Don’t track your time, track your results. Put first things first and get them done. And don’t expect your goal to be easy; it’s supposed to be hard. If it wasn’t hard you would already have it completed, and so would everyone else. The hard part is what makes it worthwhile. In life there are no shortcuts to any place worth going. 

3. Stay true to your path. – A successful life is one that is lived through understanding and pursuing one’s own path, not chasing after the dreams of others. You have to do what’s right for you; no one else walks in your shoes. Keep moving forward, beyond the negative rhetoric echoing from the peanut gallery. Do what you have to do, for you. Live a life you are proud of. And the moment you realize you’re not, find the strength to start over again on a new path.

4. Nurture your self-confidence. – You have everything you need within you to become the best possible version of YOU. Believe that you CAN. Believe that you’re capable of pushing harder and farther than you have before. Believe that you’re young enough, old enough, smart enough and strong enough to achieve your goals. Don’t let false beliefs stop you from moving beyond yourself. And certainly don’t get sidetracked by the people around you who are not on track. 

5. Be sincerely kind to those around you. – Kindness in words creates positivity. Kindness in thinking creates confidence. Kindness in giving creates love. Through kindness you have the ability to make a profound difference in every life you touch, including your own. When you guide someone who is lost and confused, when you hold someone who is sad and grieving, when you hug someone who has lost all their hope, you too will feel yourself healing and growing stronger. Remember, the vast majority of positive changes come about in someone’s life simply because one other person cares for them, believes in them, and motivates them. So be that other person when you can.

These things are important to me. Start, be productive, be honest with yourself, believe in yourself and be kind and honest with others. I believe that these are the makings of a satisfying life for me.

What is important to you? Do you reflect upon yourself and your life at the start of a New Year?

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